Sperm donor dad, lesbian couple reach agreement Associated Press Copyright 2013 Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed. Updated 2:54 pm, Friday, February 8, 2013 MIAMI (AP) — A sperm donor who is gay and a lesbian couple are having a reunion of sorts after a nearly three-year legal battle over the couple's daughter. The mothers maintain sole parental responsibilities and will make decisions about Emma's health and well-being.